Comments on: Why men look at porn

By: Michelle

Michelle — Mon, 14 Nov 2011 19:55:30 +0000

It may be the norm for a man to look at porn, but I think it shows obvious disrespect for the woman in his life.
I just had my fiance leave me a little over a month ago because of his increased teen porn watching. We were together 10 years.
I’m no prude and have been known to watch porn from time to time with the man in my life. I wouldn’t even have minded him doing it occasionally, but I have daughters the same age as some of these young women he was jacking off to and it made me very uncomfortable as a parent. Even though he never made any advances towards her or touched her in any way, he got quite close to my youngest, pretty, curvy, daughter. He was always taking her places and it even got to the point where he would ask her to go places with him instead of me. When we went on family outings, he would always stick closer to her than me or my other daughter. He knew his fascination with the younger porn hurt me, made me mad, and he would promise to stop, but the promises always turned into lies. He started erasing his history on his computer, but I found some he missed a few times. Then the data usage on his phone was real high and I found out he had been looking at it when he was out. I like men and I loved sex with him, yet he always made excuses that he wasn’t young anymore and couldn’t perform several times a week. He sure seemed to be able to perform while looking at porn though. It actually took my place in the relationship, to the point that he couldn’t get it up any longer with me and sex became non existent for us, yet between his bottle of little wonder pills and the porn, he was getting himself off on a daily basis.
He went out of town on a job assignment, found some slut, cheated on me, while still looking at the porn on his phone, came back, got his stuff and left again. It didn’t matter that he hurt me as long as he has his porn. He has since progressed to what I consider REAL teen porn, the sites that really do show the 14-17 yr old females instead of the sites that have women dressed up to look like teens. The man is 45 yrs old, an OTR trucker and he sits in his truck and jacks off to this shit. I think he is pushing the boundary for pedophilia. The really creepy end to this story is that he hasn’t contacted me at all, yet he texted my pretty daughter and asked if she was still mad at him? The man really is a sick bastard and I think his porn watching has become a bad addiction.

By: wowzer

wowzer — Tue, 08 Nov 2011 19:00:56 +0000

OK – let’s get to bottom line. Men are stupid and lazy. Give me a break. Men use the lame ass excuses – all men do it, men are visual, it doesn’t mean anything, etc. Again, men are stupid and lazy. If men are SO visual, then they should use their BRAIN to visualize. Hence the stupidity. If men need variaty, then use your brain to visualize variaty, and hence the laziness. It really all boils down to selfishness. MEN are pure 100% SELFISH asshole. Men think they are entitled to look at porn. Men want women to be in committed relationship with them but they don’t want to be committed themselves. Well, ladies, this is half your fault also. QUIT putting up with it. Kick their their lazy, selfish ass out or leave. Don’t put up this caveman crap excuses. We are adult human beings with a brain. That’s what seperates us from low life animals. We are suppose to our brains.

By: Lainers

Lainers — Mon, 07 Nov 2011 19:59:04 +0000

If your relationship works with porn, then kudos to you. However, if I have caught my husband, given him a pass, told him how much ut hurts me, heard him apologize and swear to never do it again, he’d better never do it again. Even that first time its excusable, but now that he KNOWS it displeases me and makes me feel like crap, if he continues to do it, THEN its wrong. It doesn’t matter if “every guy does it.” If my husband knows I don’t want him to, then he shouldn’t. End of story.