For the last 8 months..I have been in the most wonderful relationship I have ever had in my entire 30 years on this planet. My boyfriend moved in with me 3 months ago and it is great! We were aquintance for the whole semester, then friends and then together..it tooks months for us to finally kiss, when it happend it was incredible.

Previous to this I have had one serious relationship and many dating nightmares. All in all not much of a jaded past, at least in that catergory. For the most part I am a very self aware, self assured women with “normal” insecurities about my body…you know the..” oh I wish I was thinner here..blah, blah but not enough to bog me down.

Something is just puzzling me! I am finding myeslf with all these insecure thoughts…what if he will leave me for someone more attractive. I can’t believe he is with me.

He is gorgeous…its true and I am one attractive little lady.

When we go out sometimes another girl will check him out and I find myself miffed. Yet, at the same time I know with all my heart he loves me and loves me for who I am, this is one of the reasons I adore him so! But these ugly thoughts will not stop rearing their ugly heads.

In the past I have NEVER been jealous or so insecure in a realtionship. Now, that I have the most amazing boyfriend any one could ask for, it seems like my mind is flipping. I just cannot firgure why now am I jealous…I hate jealousy and why I am so insecure…when I have a man that a wonderful person and that I trust with all my heart.

Help!

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