Comments on: Sex or children: a choice

By: Rach

Rach — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 09:01:58 +0000

Wow. this is retarded. first of all does anyone consider how she feels. dont you think that maybe shes going through stress because she’s probably the one taking more care of the child than he is and all hes doing is naggin about something trivial as sex after THEIR child is born. a real man and father wouldn’t be such a little nagging bitch about it. second its not like we chose for our bodies to do that. it happens naturally. let me try to put it into a language some shallow man (like the author) would understand. its like some fat ugly chick tryin to bone you and you dont want to. you stupid idiots act like shes just doing it to piss you off. because your only thinking about yourself. heres a thought get off your ass and out of your ass and help out more than maybe she can try to forget that her hormones dont want to have sex and try to give you what YOU want and worry about the baby as well. jesus men are a such a waste of space.

By: Michelle

Michelle — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 12:56:10 +0000

Speaking as a first time mom I hate to say that this is a pretty accurate account, our child is 6 months now and I am breastfeeding which delays ovulation and deminishes sex-drive. I try not to get defensive and I am hoping I’ll be back to myself soon. The arguments over sex are constant. On a good week maybe twice and a BJ, or sometimes it could be as long as 2 weeks. And because my drive isnt there the sex isnt exactly mind-blowing, just going through the motions. I do feel bad for my man but he wanted a baby more than i did.

By: Greg

Greg — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 20:08:56 +0000

This article explains my current 7-year marriage perfectly. Intimacy dropped some after moving in together, a little more after marriage, and then fell off the cliff after our 1st child was born. Even the birthday part was right on – that was the date of my last sex, about 6 months ago. It’s all very frustrating so now I drink a little more, go to stripclubs on occasion, and surf internet porn to make it through life without getting a divorce and screwing up my kids’ lives.