The best friend of the marriage celebrant is the divorce lawyer, its just a racket if there was no money or assetts involved – nobody would bother !

Sorry to say but in 2011 love is measured by a bankbook , you are far better off to revert to the 1970′s ways shack up with the bird – if you both get sick of each other and you find you just entered the world of robotioc regulated sex, which is vanishing faster than your money ! well you can always walk away from it .

Wedding cars in my state lay a rusting in the lots – thats the finist thing ive ever seen – marriage is got up for mugs definately !

Fool and his money and assets are soon parted, the woman if she wants a big dollar – give her the address of the bank but most these days the crap generation under 35 years – i mean hell who’sd bother with em no morals / no respect / just walking ATM machines that feel the world owes them a living .

In 2011 I have a great philosophy with women – person with the $ ability to make life – makes the rules be it HIM we’ll do it his way – be it SHE then we will do it her way – and really that’s the tin tacs of it all .

Womans got to be worth her salt, because without him ”she ” has a big percentage of zero and that my friends is a fact !

Women also get the large end of the stick here as marriage laws are still imposing responsibility legally on men and women make out with half their stuff but otherwise aren’t subject to any of the old fashioned responsibilities women bore in marriage unless they choose so.

As to fatherless children lots of women today lie and stop taking birth control to get pregnant without the guys consent knowing either way they have a check a judge is giving them for the next 18 years and can move in with their new boyfriend. They also know they always tend to get custody so if they are bored in marriage and want to date other guys they just walk away.

Some people truly believe in vowing before God to spend their lives in sickness and health with another person. For these people it has significance and they tend not to divorce as much. For the rest of us it’s an expensive corporate invention. When else would a sane person ever consider paying 3,000 for a cake ? It’s a cake yes it’s big , yes it tastes good but you still paid 2-3k for a cake.

It’s a party, a conquest , spectacle, but not something to give an ultimatum over. Has little to do with love, commitment or much of anything else unless you really hold those values to be independent of the marriage in the first place but feel the need to unite under Gods permission.

How many people really fall in the category and why is everyone else so determined to get married ? Mother, father, kids, family none these things require marriage. Why not just forgo the legal aspect and make it just a spiritual ceremony ? Oh and many single parent homes, and fatherless kids come out of broken marriages.

Marriage is shallow and materialistic and the diamond ring was invented by the diamond cartel. The idea that a man must spend two month salary on a worthless (and yes diamond were actually common for the last 50 years even before they started being able to cheaply create them in a lab.) I will marry the day a women buys me an engagement , or some other other worthless object for 2 months salary so I can show it off to my guy friends to brag and prove she’s a catch.

There’s nothing magical nor mystical about marriage. It’s an out-moded institution that should be regarded with the same barbarism as blood sacrifices and public stonings.