I’ll go on ahead and get straight to the point of my email. I’m twenty one year old single male who goes on dates quite often. During the past month I’ve had at least one a weekend and they always turn out well. I’ve very rarely been turned down for a second or third date if it makes it to that point, but the problem is none of the girls I’ve dated have made me stumble over myself with worry of what she thinks of me.

Zero of them have just piqued my interest so much that right after I drop her off I feel the urge to call her to talk some more. Let me go on ahead and add that I’ve never been in a serious relationship before. The fact that I haven’t felt any sort of chemistry with the girls that I’ve dated has started to worry me, especially because of the fact that over half of them I have many things in common with. I’ve been asked by a few of my female friends, “What do you look for in a girl?” and I can honestly say I don’t know anymore. If I don’t become attracted to the girls who like the stuff that I like, then how am I going to feel anything for someone who doesn’t?

So, my question is am I not giving these girls enough of a chance for me to begin to feel something, or should I actually feel a strong attraction immediately?

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